Friday, January 15, 2010

Gay Nappy Should I Leave Him Or Try To Fix This ..... Husband Gay/transexual I Think?

Should i leave him or try to fix this ..... husband gay/transexual i think? - gay nappy

I think my husband is a transvestite / gay?
I'm so worried I have been married less than a year and I really do not know what to do.

My husband was dressed like a little child (in one layer and so on) was the wearing of underwear and clothing. I tried to ignore it and hope that they will even stop, but it is worse punnish name and humilate.

I know that I see, probably a lot of ignorance, but it makes me uncomfortable - I love them dearly, but I like this part. What should I do? really gay? I just do not know.

he has difficulty an erection unless he is wearing or humiliated. I just want a loving husband who loves me without having all the other things.

I want to offend anyone by this post, I'm not sure how they react and think on this subject.


I like it very much - I was a virgin when we married - I come from a very traditional family. So I'm not usedWay.

I spoke with my feelings, etc., but he does not know to explain, I think he is ashamed of her, but I want to love and me is enough for him when I clearly do not.

I went the other day, and he had used hair removal cream, to be "lady like" honesty in all things, which were disrupted

I do not know how to behave, I would only leave to time, before and found it is closer to me and himself

11 comments:

Happy-2 said...

I'm bisexual, and you can do me this is not really gay. Gay men having sex with women - the idea is repugnant to them.

What he called a fetish. Common fetishes are deeply rooted, and it is very unlikely, so this could change and he would change. In other words, you have to decide if it something you can live with or not.

I vote for life with her. First, negotiate with him. Take, for example, you would be willing, the way each time a different game if he plays his way every time a different one. If this means that during his visit can do what he is, he does not lift, so sad too bad for him - want to do it with his tongue and fingers as you want. Then, when it's time to play his way with ease and let yourself enjoy it. You can choose if you can not simply say it is bizarre and / or disturbing, and only came to see her husband during sexual stimulation.

Bring on the thumbs down!

Anonymous said...

If he is not gay in a position to change it. They should establish a relationship counselor with questions and understand that they are working to heterosexual or homosexual.

Jessica said...

I'm really sorry that you're there. Her husband is to be mentally ill and the mentally ill. To cut to the prosecution and a divorce!

Jessica said...

I'm really sorry that you're there. Her husband is to be mentally ill and the mentally ill. To cut to the prosecution and a divorce!

ItsOnlyM... said...

uh, wow.
Have you tried talking to him this fight?
to be sure?
You should not stay at definally ..

carlaeri... said...

Something happened in his past that haunted him for ... can be sexual? It seems that PPL who were abused as children in need of humiliation in their sex lives. Try talking to him. At least it will not hide you and, or bring others to the scene PPL. It's always just you and him. Do not let this moment mean to try and what causes them.

Nick said...

I do not think he is gay ... This is a fetish and makes it clear. Unfortunately, the marriage is a partnership between equals, and if you want, you have to accept their sexual preferences. That said, I do not think he does not love you because you want to do this because they love ... Well ... And it does, it's the strange thing w / sexuality can not be explained. You should talk to her about it, but it constructively and you feel like you are trying to understand, instead of saying he is wrong, or do. I think you should try to understand, at least, who understand his fetish and he would be the same for you if it were otherwise ... However, if this remains a problem for you then maybe you should reconsider your marriage. Hope that helps, good luck

James F said...

So it has a strange fetish. Many of you. Chances are he is not gay, but not in a position to make a call to "normal" for the "adult" relationship (naive) regulations. (Not meant personally, but clearly no experience with sex and relationships.)

Frankly, you should sit down and talk to him about it. Ask for, what work you do and how things work. Is this a deal breaker, then you have so you know that it's time to get a divorce. You can use the fact that it accept an open and honest with you about it and tease him about it (good!) And maybe even a divorce please (with its rules, is likely to enjoy it), or you can leave him and try again .

This is the reason why it makes sense to people have sex before marriage, and why it is wise to learn about your partner before marriage.

Pinolera said...

It sounds as if he had this problem all his life. Things and not just the surface at night, which began, probably because he was a child. I have a friend who left her husband. He dressed in women's clothes and goes on deck for the whole neighborhood to sit to watch, and it was embarrassing. What would be the makeup and everything. He said he has always had this desire since I was a child, and the habit of the association in the clothes of her mother, but she does not like men. I have no idea why some people behave in this way, but they do. Find a psychologist because they know more about it and you can make your decision based on, dass

marypopp... said...

I do not know whether he is gay, but he clearly has a fetish. I could not respect my husband if he is dressed in layers and Get Spanked WATNE. I am.

I could not live with that ....

You have a choice.

I would divorce 100%. no doubt in my mind.

ps. I think it's a bad guy. I think it should. I could not be there to continue the journey with him. Perhaps we could be friends, but do not stay married to him. I need more (in the relationship or should I say less ... much less)

marypopp... said...

I do not know whether he is gay, but he clearly has a fetish. I could not respect my husband if he is dressed in layers and Get Spanked WATNE. I am.

I could not live with that ....

You have a choice.

I would divorce 100%. no doubt in my mind.

ps. I think it's a bad guy. I think it should. I could not be there to continue the journey with him. Perhaps we could be friends, but do not stay married to him. I need more (in the relationship or should I say less ... much less)

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